Parenting is often a delicate balance between love and discipline. In “Please Don’t Feed Me Fish Sticks When You Can Teach Me How to Fish,” Dana Greco highlights a growing issue among modern parents—overindulgence. While giving children everything they want may seem like an act of love, it can actually harm their emotional and personal growth.
Many parents struggle with saying “no,” fearing that their child will feel deprived or resentful. However, Greco argues that constantly fulfilling a child’s every demand creates a false sense of entitlement. Instead of learning patience and hard work, overly indulged children expect things to be handed to them. This can lead to frustration and disappointment when they realize that the world does not operate on their desires.
One of the biggest misconceptions about parenting is that giving more leads to happiness. In reality, children who receive everything they ask for often struggle with a lack of motivation, poor problem-solving skills, and a decreased sense of gratitude. Greco suggests that setting boundaries and limitations actually helps children develop self-discipline and resilience. Parents must teach their children that they cannot always have what they want, but they can work towards their goals.
This book offers practical advice for parents who want to break free from the cycle of overindulgence. Greco emphasizes the importance of teaching life skills, allowing children to experience failure, and fostering a mindset of independence. Instead of giving children everything they ask for, parents should focus on providing them with the tools to earn and achieve their goals.
Overindulgence may bring temporary happiness, but true success and fulfillment come from effort, discipline, and resilience. Greco’s book is a must-read for parents who want to raise confident, responsible, and emotionally mature children in a world where instant gratification has become the norm.
